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ShinyGirl's avatar

It is so awesome. Unbecoming.

Lindsey Lerner's avatar

Sure is! What has your experience been?

ShinyGirl's avatar

"The doorway that opened all doors." Especially love that. Andee opened a big door for me in her day 1 group. She opened my eyes and asked a lot of good questions. How does this serve you is one of them. She introduced me to identity, presence, and the importance of being a lighthouse among others. Unbecoming is another idea to ponder. She’s my lodestar. 


Andee Scarantino's avatar

"I'm just alive and I have income. I'm paid to exist." 😂

Also "I wake up constipated." haha I forgot I said that

THANK YOU, Lindsey, for this wonderful piece! This is so awesome.

Lindsey Lerner's avatar

Straight from the transcript 😂 And I LOVE IT! So glad you enjoyed it!

Cole Johnson 🕺's avatar

LOVE hearing your voice over on this 😍

Something beautiful is moving through me no doubt 🤗

Lindsey Lerner's avatar

I'm so glad that you connected Andee and I! So glad you enjoyed it as well.

Bill Kirst's avatar

Becoming awareness. Resisting performing. Rejecting scripting. Embracing the signals is like feeding sparrows. They find their own flight to your generosity.

Follow the words. Let the pen 🖊️ tell the story.

Love this!

Lindsey Lerner's avatar

I love this! Thank you!

MarySue Thomas's avatar

It’s always engaging hearing from and hearing about Andee!

Thank you Lindsey Lerner - I just discussed your Substack and look forward to reading more from you.

MarySue Thomas's avatar

Oops! Meant ‘discovered’ not ‘discussed’ - gotta love autocorrect!

Lindsey Lerner's avatar

Both of them are lovely! I am so glad that you found this and it resonated with you. I hope that continues to be the case!

Ché Lynne ✨'s avatar

I really enjoyed this structure Lindsey, and the content, so much! I just left my career of 15+ years and have been struggling with the idea of pivoting away, as it held so much of my identity. I like the exercise about writing what you gained in that time, but then putting it down — especially, your attachment to it. I hope to try out your exercises because I’m tired of limiting myself to my old ways. I want to be present, now! Thank you 🙏🏽

Lindsey Lerner's avatar

YES! Ah! I’m so glad you listened. This was my exact intention! I think you’d really enjoy Ruth’s story as well.

Thembeka's avatar

‘Coaching without attachment’ I want to hear more!

Lindsey Lerner's avatar

Ideally this is what all coaches would do, huh?